Many of you might not know this, but I have a gorgeous, positive, amazing, strong, big-hearted, kick-ass, younger sister named Amanda.
We are so similar in so many ways, and then in others…we are just the opposite. For instance: I love scary movies year-round, and Amanda loves Hallmark movies year-round. But we do both love to read.
Amanda once asked me if I could send her a list of book recommendations. She said she was looking for something heartwarming, emotional, feel-good, fun, light, and/or romantic. Manda- I never got around to it, but here it is now.
All the books in this list are at least two of those things, sometimes all six. There are books from adult and young adult age groups and genres ranging from romance to non-fiction to fantasy (yep). These books have made me laugh and cry and/or want to hug everybody nearby and I’m so happy to share them with you. I hope one of them ends up being your next great read. I love you so much.
Happy Birthday, Little!
What’s it about?
An international sensation, this hilarious, feel-good novel is narrated by an oddly charming and socially challenged genetics professor on an unusual quest: to find out if he is capable of true love.
Don Tillman, professor of genetics, has never been on a second date. He is a man who can count all his friends on the fingers of one hand, whose lifelong difficulty with social rituals has convinced him that he is simply not wired for romance. So when an acquaintance informs him that he would make a “wonderful” husband, his first reaction is shock. Yet he must concede to the statistical probability that there is someone for everyone, and he embarks upon The Wife Project. In the orderly, evidence-based manner with which he approaches all things, Don sets out to find the perfect partner. She will be punctual and logical—most definitely not a barmaid, a smoker, a drinker, or a late-arriver.
Yet Rosie Jarman is all these things. She is also beguiling, fiery, intelligent—and on a quest of her own. She is looking for her biological father, a search that a certain DNA expert might be able to help her with. Don’s Wife Project takes a back burner to the Father Project and an unlikely relationship blooms, forcing the scientifically minded geneticist to confront the spontaneous whirlwind that is Rosie—and the realization that love is not always what looks good on paper.
The Rosie Project is a moving and hilarious novel for anyone who has ever tenaciously gone after life or love in the face of overwhelming challenges.
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- When I asked my bookclub to recommend me the most “sweet, heartwarming, romantic” book they could think of, this book was recommended so many times.
- I hate to admit it, but I hadn’t read it before this week! After it was so highly recommended and I wanted to include it for you, I went out and picked up a copy and I can safely say that this book was so. darn. sweet.
- The Rosie Project is all about how we can find love no matter how odd we are. And we are! We’re all a little odd, which is part of why I enjoyed this so much.
- This book is weird and funny, sweet and silly, but mostly just a fun and heartwarming story about the power of love.
What’s it about?
Georgette Castle’s family runs the best home renovation business in town, but she picked balloons instead of blueprints and they haven’t taken her seriously since. Frankly, she’s over it. Georgie loves planning children’s birthday parties and making people laugh, just not at her own expense. She’s determined to fix herself up into a Woman of the World… whatever that means.
Phase one: new framework for her business (a website from this decade, perhaps?)
Phase two: a gut-reno on her wardrobe (fyi, leggings are pants.)
Phase three: updates to her exterior (do people still wax?)
Phase four: put herself on the market (and stop crushing on Travis Ford!)
Living her best life means facing the truth: Georgie hasn’t been on a date since, well, ever. Nobody’s asking the town clown out for a night of hot sex, that’s for sure. Maybe if people think she’s having a steamy love affair, they’ll acknowledge she’s not just the “little sister” who paints faces for a living. And who better to help demolish that image than the resident sports star and tabloid favorite?
Travis Ford was major league baseball’s hottest rookie when an injury ended his career. Now he’s flipping houses to keep busy and trying to forget his glory days. But he can’t even cross the street without someone recapping his greatest hits. Or making a joke about his… bat. And then there’s Georgie, his best friend’s sister, who is not a kid anymore. When she proposes a wild scheme—that they pretend to date, to shock her family and help him land a new job—he agrees. What’s the harm? It’s not like it’s real. But the girl Travis used to tease is now a funny, full-of-life woman and there’s nothing fake about how much he wants her…
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- First of all, I have really enjoyed Tessa Bailey in the past. She’s an author I immediately thought of for this list for you. Her books are light, fun, sweet, and emotionally honest. I like the way she writes characters and I think you will too.
- I also LOVED her sequel to this book called Love Her or Lose Her, which comes out in January. I definitely recommend that too.
- Fixing up houses always makes me think of you & Matt! (And Chip & Joanna Gaines, but you guys first.)
What’s it about?
Lillian and Madison were unlikely roommates and yet inseparable friends at their elite boarding school. But then Lillian had to leave the school unexpectedly in the wake of a scandal and they’ve barely spoken since. Until now, when Lillian gets a letter from Madison pleading for her help.
Madison’s twin stepkids are moving in with her family and she wants Lillian to be their caretaker. However, there’s a catch: the twins spontaneously combust when they get agitated, flames igniting from their skin in a startling but beautiful way. Lillian is convinced Madison is pulling her leg, but it’s the truth.
Thinking of her dead-end life at home, the life that has consistently disappointed her, Lillian figures she has nothing to lose. Over the course of one humid, demanding summer, Lillian and the twins learn to trust each other—and stay cool—while also staying out of the way of Madison’s buttoned-up politician husband. Surprised by her own ingenuity yet unused to the intense feelings of protectiveness she feels for them, Lillian ultimately begins to accept that she needs these strange children as much as they need her—urgently and fiercely. Couldn’t this be the start of the amazing life she’d always hoped for?
With white-hot wit and a big, tender heart, Kevin Wilson has written his best book yet—a most unusual story of parental love.
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- This book has so much heart. From the characters to the way the author talks about emotions and being human to the twists in the story, it was full of authenticity and humor and heart. It made me so emotional, in the best of ways.
- The main character has to be so resourceful with these children and it’s impressive to watch her figure out solution after solution throughout the story. It made me think of you as a teacher, good at thinking on your feet with the weird problems kids always have orbiting them. I hope you get a kick out of that.
- The main character is also funny and weird and not exactly normal but kind of in the best way. She reminded me of myself a little, but also of the way that you and Mom and I think. I can’t wait to hear if you agree.
- This book was funnnnnyyyyyy. Did it also make me cry a little? Yeah. But only because I was happy and my heart felt full. So yeah, have tissues, but also expect to smile a lot.
What’s it about?
Stella Lane thinks math is the only thing that unites the universe. She comes up with algorithms to predict customer purchases — a job that has given her more money than she knows what to do with, and way less experience in the dating department than the average thirty-year-old.
It doesn’t help that Stella has Asperger’s and French kissing reminds her of a shark getting its teeth cleaned by pilot fish. Her conclusion: she needs lots of practice — with a professional. Which is why she hires escort Michael Phan. The Vietnamese and Swedish stunner can’t afford to turn down Stella’s offer, and agrees to help her check off all the boxes on her lesson plan — from foreplay to more-than-missionary position…
Before long, Stella not only learns to appreciate his kisses, but to crave all the other things he’s making her feel. Soon, their no-nonsense partnership starts making a strange kind of sense. And the pattern that emerges will convince Stella that love is the best kind of logic…
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- I loved this book so much for a lot of reasons that were personal to me and that I feel might also be personally interesting to you. I would love to cozy up and compare notes on this particular romance with you.
- The characters are earnest, sweet, good-hearted, and real. The way she writes people (in both of her books) makes me think a little of Jane the Virgin. (Which, for the rest of you, is a show that my sister and I loved.)
- It was also, honestly just…so much fun to read, more than anything else. I enjoyed the hell out of it and so did a lot of other people, so I hope you will too.
- This author is one of my ultimate new favorites, hands-down. Her books all connect through the same family and the love and care she puts into her characters is remarkable. I think you’d love all of her books. This one, the sequel (The Bride Test, which I loved) and her other upcoming sequel (The Heart Principle).
What’s it about?
Being the middle child has its ups and downs.
But for Grace, an only child who was adopted at birth, discovering that she is a middle child is a different ride altogether. After putting her own baby up for adoption, she goes looking for her biological family, including—
Maya, her loudmouthed younger bio sister, who has a lot to say about their newfound family ties. Having grown up the snarky brunette in a house full of chipper redheads, she’s quick to search for traces of herself among these not-quite-strangers. And when her adopted family’s long-buried problems begin to explode to the surface, Maya can’t help but wonder where exactly it is that she belongs.
And Joaquin, their stoic older bio brother, who has no interest in bonding over their shared biological mother. After seventeen years in the foster care system, he’s learned that there are no heroes, and secrets and fears are best kept close to the vest, where they can’t hurt anyone but him.
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- This book tugged on every one of my heartstrings and made me feel so so many things. I read it in a day and actually happy-cried a little. It was a great read.
- This book is all about families and our ties to each other and it is really a beautiful story about love. It’s heartwarming and deep and full of compassion.
- Robin Benway is a great writer. This book is fun and easy to read, on top of being an emotional story. So many people I know recommended this book for this list!
What’s it about?
A grumpy yet loveable man finds his solitary world turned on its head when a boisterous young family moves in next door.
Meet Ove. He’s a curmudgeon, the kind of man who points at people he dislikes as if they were burglars caught outside his bedroom window. He has staunch principles, strict routines, and a short fuse. People call him the bitter neighbor from hell, but must Ove be bitter just because he doesn’t walk around with a smile plastered to his face all the time?
Behind the cranky exterior there is a story and a sadness. So when one November morning a chatty young couple with two chatty young daughters move in next door and accidentally flatten Ove’s mailbox, it is the lead-in to a comical and heartwarming tale of unkempt cats, unexpected friendship, and the ancient art of backing up a U-Haul. All of which will change one cranky old man and a local residents’ association to their very foundations.
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- This writer often makes me think of you. It’s hard to describe why though, because it’s not always the characters or the story, but instead it’s– the vibe and the tone that he creates in each of his books. He’s a deep thinker, doesn’t rush, and creates characters with such tenderness. I don’t know why but I just have a hunch you might like him.
- This book is arguably his most popular, so I thought it’d be a good place to start.
- Also, this book is wonderful and heartwarming and all about love. It sucks you in and watching the character grow and learn is beautiful. I hope you like it.
What’s it about?
Here is a truth that can’t be escaped: for Mia “Rabbit” Hayes, life is coming to an end …
Mia-“Rabbit”-Hayes knows that life is hard for everyone. And she knows that she’s one of the lucky ones. She loves her life, ordinary as it is. And she loves the extraordinary people in it: her spirited daughter, Juliet; her colorful, unruly family; the only man in her big heart, Johnny Faye. Rabbit has big ideas, full of music and love and so much life. She has plans for the world. But the world, it turns out, has other plans for Rabbit: a devastating diagnosis.
Rabbit is feisty. And with every ounce of love and strength in her, she promises that she will overcome. She will fight fight fight. She will be with those who love her for as long as she can, and she will live as long as she can with music and love and so much life. And as her friends and family rally round to celebrate Rabbit’s last days, they look to her for strength, support, and her unyielding zest for life. Because she is Rabbit Hayes and she will live until she dies.
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- I almost didn’t include this on your list because you said you didn’t want sad books. And this book will make you cry, for sure. BUT. I included it anyway because it isn’t really sad. It’s really a story of living our lives to their fullest and appreciating the love and beauty all around us, reminders that often make me think of you.
- We’re emotional people and sometimes sobbing along to a beautiful story can be fun haha. So- have tissues, but I promise you’ll also enjoy yourself. Rabbit is such a fun companion.
- This book will make you look at everyone you love with just a little more appreciation, compassion, and patience. It brings out the best in its readers.
What’s it about?
Bod is an unusual boy who inhabits an unusual place-he’s the only living resident of a graveyard. Raised from infancy by the ghosts, werewolves, and other cemetery denizens, Bod has learned the antiquated customs of his guardians’ time as well as their timely ghostly teachings-like the ability to Fade. Can a boy raised by ghosts face the wonders and terrors of the worlds of both the living and the dead? And then there are things like ghouls that aren’t really one thing or the other.
This chilling tale is Neil Gaiman’s first full-length novel for middle-grade readers since the internationally bestselling and universally acclaimed Coraline. Like Coraline, this book is sure to enchant and surprise young readers as well as Neil Gaiman’s legion of adult fans.
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- So this one you might have to trust me on. It’s a little bit out of your normal reading zones, but I had to sneak one fantasy novel onto this list and this is the one I chose with you in mind.
- I’ve read this book more than once because I love it. It’s a beautiful story about a boy growing up and learning what it means to grow up and become an adult, what you lose and gain in the process. It’s about unconventional families and the magic of friendship and loved ones lost. It’s also a quick read, since it’s technically a Middle Grade novel.
- Neil Gaiman is one of the best authors I have ever read or known when it comes to describing emotion and the unique experience of the human condition. He thinks and feels deeply, and that comes through in his writing. He writes beautifully.
- It’s also a crazy, fun, wild story underneath it all!
What’s it about?
No one is ever happy to see Grace Salmon.
As a funeral arranger, she’s responsible for steering strangers through the hardest day of their lives. It’s not a task many would want – but, for Grace, giving people the chance to say a proper goodbye to the ones they love is the most important job in the world.
From the flowers in the church to the drinks served at the wake, Grace knows it’s the personal touches that count – and it’s amazing what you can find out about someone from their grieving relatives … or their Facebook page. But when she accidentally finds out too much about someone who’s died, Grace is finally forced to step out of the shadows… and start living.
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- Okay, so there’s a couple of sad books on here. But really, I promise, this one is not as sad as it may appear from the cover and synopsis.
- This book was funny and deep in equal proportions, and its a wonderful story about a young woman learning to love and live her life. It’s heartwarming and sweet and a little sad, but mostly looks for the beauty in our lives.
What’s it about?
All’s “faire” in love and war for two sworn enemies who indulge in a harmless flirtation in a laugh-out-loud rom-com from debut author, Jen DeLuca.
Emily knew there would be strings attached when she relocated to the small town of Willow Creek, Maryland, for the summer to help her sister recover from an accident, but who could anticipate getting roped into volunteering for the local Renaissance Faire alongside her teenaged niece? Or that the irritating and inscrutable schoolteacher in charge of the volunteers would be so annoying that she finds it impossible to stop thinking about him?
The faire is Simon’s family legacy and from the start he makes clear he doesn’t have time for Emily’s lighthearted approach to life, her oddball Shakespeare conspiracy theories, or her endless suggestions for new acts to shake things up. Yet on the faire grounds he becomes a different person, flirting freely with Emily when she’s in her revealing wench’s costume. But is this attraction real, or just part of the characters they’re portraying?
This summer was only ever supposed to be a pit stop on the way to somewhere else for Emily, but soon she can’t seem to shake the fantasy of establishing something more with Simon, or a permanent home of her own in Willow Creek.
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- This was the second most recommended book from my book club when I asked what to put on your list. Also- I liked this book too!
- Well Met is kind of the pinnacle of “light, romantic, and heartwarming.” It has a relaxed and fun vibe and doesn’t take itself too seriously, while also delivering such a sweet love story.
- When I read this, I remember thinking to myself “ha, this makes me think of a hallmark movie- Amanda would love this,” and here we are now!
What’s it about?
Milk and honey’ is a collection of poetry and prose about survival. About the experience of violence, abuse, love, loss, and femininity. It is split into four chapters, and each chapter serves a different purpose. Deals with a different pain. Heals a different heartache. ‘milk and honey’ takes readers through a journey of the most bitter moments in life and finds sweetness in them because there is sweetness everywhere if you are just willing to look.
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- I don’t know if you read much poetry or if you’ve already read this one, but this is one of my favorite collections of poetry.
- It’s short, while also being deep, emotional, profound, and so relatable. I underlined so many things when I read through this the first time.
- This is such a good collection for women. It’s all about healing and living, our bodies and our minds, and it’s also about love. I think you’d find a lot of ideas in here that you’d relate to.
What’s it about?
In her twenties, Emma Blair marries her high school sweetheart, Jesse. They build a life for themselves, far away from the expectations of their parents and the people of their hometown in Massachusetts. They travel the world together, living life to the fullest and seizing every opportunity for adventure.
On their first wedding anniversary, Jesse is on a helicopter over the Pacific when it goes missing. Just like that, Jesse is gone forever.
Emma quits her job and moves home in an effort to put her life back together. Years later, now in her thirties, Emma runs into an old friend, Sam, and finds herself falling in love again. When Emma and Sam get engaged, it feels like Emma’s second chance at happiness.
That is, until Jesse is found. He’s alive, and he’s been trying all these years to come home to her. With a husband and a fiancé, Emma has to now figure out who she is and what she wants, while trying to protect the ones she loves.
Who is her one true love? What does it mean to love truly?
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- Oh man, this story made my heart grow three sizes. It was beautiful. Sweet and tender, emotionally honest and nuanced, and full of characters that I loved and rooted for.
- This book definitely made me cry, but in the best of ways. My heart felt so full while I read this and especially when I finished. The emotions in this book are so real and relatable.
- Taylor Jenkins Reid is one of my favorite authors of the year and I highly recommend anything she’s ever written, but this one is my favorite romance of hers. She is a phenomenal writer.
- I loved the ending and I think you will too.
What’s it about?
Olive is always unlucky: in her career, in love, in…well, everything. Her identical twin sister Ami, on the other hand, is probably the luckiest person in the world. Her meet-cute with her fiancé is something out of a romantic comedy (gag) and she’s managed to finance her entire wedding by winning a series of Internet contests (double gag). Worst of all, she’s forcing Olive to spend the day with her sworn enemy, Ethan, who just happens to be the best man.
Olive braces herself to get through 24 hours of wedding hell before she can return to her comfortable, unlucky life. But when the entire wedding party gets food poisoning from eating bad shellfish, the only people who aren’t affected are Olive and Ethan. And now there’s an all-expenses-paid honeymoon in Hawaii up for grabs.
Putting their mutual hatred aside for the sake of a free vacation, Olive and Ethan head for paradise, determined to avoid each other at all costs. But when Olive runs into her future boss, the little white lie she tells him is suddenly at risk to become a whole lot bigger. She and Ethan now have to pretend to be loving newlyweds, and her luck seems worse than ever. But the weird thing is that she doesn’t mind playing pretend. In fact, she feels kind of… lucky.
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- It’s funny and sweet, and did I mention hilarious? I had a blast reading this one, couldn’t put it down, just lots of sweet and silly fun. When you asked me to make this list, this was one of the first books I thought of. (Though that was also because, at the time, I had just finished reading it. Still, it was a great read.)
- Reading this makes you feel like it’s Summer outside, which given that you have a ton of snow up there right now– I figured you could use that.
- Honestly, it was really, really hard to pick just one book from this author that I think you would like. Put Christina Lauren (two awesome BFFs who write together!) on your authors-to-read list, because they are right up your alley. Other books of theirs that I have read & loved: Josh and Hazel’s Guide to Not Dating, Autoboyography, and Twice in a Blue Moon.
What’s it about?
Combining the emotional depth of The Art of Racing in the Rain with the magical spirit of The Life of Pi, Lily and the Octopus is an epic adventure of the heart.
When you sit down with Lily and the Octopus, you will be taken on an unforgettable ride.
The magic of this novel is in the read, and we don’t want to spoil it by giving away too many details. We can tell you that this is a story about that special someone: the one you trust, the one you can’t live without.
For Ted Flask, that someone special is his aging companion Lily, who happens to be a dog. Lily and the Octopus reminds us how it feels to love fiercely, how difficult it can be to let go, and how the fight for those we love is the greatest fight of all.
Remember the last book you told someone they had to read? Lily and the Octopus is the next one.
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- So I read on a book list somewhere, years ago, that this was the book you should read if you’ve ever loved a dog. And you know how many dogs we’ve loved! Reading this brought up so many happy memories of our dogs growing up.
- It made me cry and laugh and my heart swell. You may want to have a box of tissues, but when the book is over you’ll feel more full for having read it.
- Its a great excuse to snuggle Bennie! (You’re welcome.)
What’s it about?
In a book inspired by her popular TED talk, New York Times bestselling author Reshma Saujani empowers women and girls to embrace imperfection and bravery.
Imagine if you lived without the fear of not being good enough. If you didn’t care how your life looked on Instagram, or worry about what total strangers thought of you. Imagine if you could let go of the guilt, and stop beating yourself up for tiny mistakes. What if, in every decision you faced, you took the bolder path?
Too many of us feel crushed under the weight of our own expectations. We run ourselves ragged trying to please everyone, all the time. We lose sleep ruminating about whether we may have offended someone, pass up opportunities that take us out of our comfort zones, and avoid rejection at all costs.
There’s a reason we act this way, Reshma says. As girls, we were taught to play it safe. Well-meaning parents and teachers praised us for being quiet and polite, urged us to be careful so we didn’t get hurt, and steered us to activities at which we could shine.
The problem is that perfect girls grow up to be women who are afraid to fail. It’s time to stop letting our fears drown out our dreams and narrow our world, along with our chance at happiness.
By choosing bravery over perfection, we can find the power to claim our voice, to leave behind what makes us unhappy, and go for the things we genuinely, passionately want. Perfection may set us on a path that feels safe, but bravery leads us to the one we’re authentically meant to follow.
In Brave, Not Perfect, Reshma shares powerful insights and practices to help us override our perfect girl training and make bravery a lifelong habit. By being brave, not perfect, we can all become the authors of our biggest, boldest, and most joyful life.
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- One of my friends who reads a lot of the same books you do recommended this to me. I read it, and I think you’d like it too. It’s right up your alley, and I know you like inspirational non-fiction.
- It contains some good advice! And it’s aimed at the unique internal struggles of women, when it comes to perfection. I related to that and I think that you will too, given we grew up together.
- You can get yourself a Bravery Prize after reading it! (Yay!)
What’s it about?
Trevor Noah’s unlikely path from apartheid South Africa to the desk of The Daily Show began with a criminal act: his birth. Trevor was born to a white Swiss father and a black Xhosa mother at a time when such a union was punishable by five years in prison. Living proof of his parents’ indiscretion, Trevor was kept mostly indoors for the earliest years of his life, bound by the extreme and often absurd measures his mother took to hide him from a government that could, at any moment, steal him away. Finally liberated by the end of South Africa’s tyrannical white rule, Trevor and his mother set forth on a grand adventure, living openly and freely and embracing the opportunities won by a centuries-long struggle.
Born a Crime is the story of a mischievous young boy who grows into a restless young man as he struggles to find himself in a world where he was never supposed to exist. It is also the story of that young man’s relationship with his fearless, rebellious, and fervently religious mother—his teammate, a woman determined to save her son from the cycle of poverty, violence, and abuse that would ultimately threaten her own life.
The eighteen personal essays collected here are by turns hilarious, dramatic, and deeply affecting. Whether subsisting on caterpillars for dinner during hard times, being thrown from a moving car during an attempted kidnapping, or just trying to survive the life-and-death pitfalls of dating in high school, Trevor illuminates his curious world with an incisive wit and unflinching honesty. His stories weave together to form a moving and searingly funny portrait of a boy making his way through a damaged world in a dangerous time, armed only with a keen sense of humor and a mother’s unconventional, unconditional love.
Why I’m recommending it to you:
- Well, for one thing, this is one of my favorite books and my favorite memoirs. It is so well written, it’s smart and funny, and he speaks with so much intelligence and empathy about his life and bigger topics. I love the sense of voice in this book, it feels like meeting a new friend over coffee.
- I think you’ll be fascinated by his life. That simply, he’s lived an interesting life very different from ours and I learned a lot and was so interested by everything he described.
- I know you will love his mom and I can’t wait to talk to you about her. I love all of the characters in this book that he brings to life, but his mom is one hell of a woman. She is strong and independent and stubborn and has the strongest faith. You are really going to like her, especially at the end, which brings me to:
- You’re going to really like the ending. And that’s all I’m gonna say on that.
I hope you have the happiest of all birthdays and the best year ahead, Amanda!!
It isn’t much, but I hope something in this list ends up bringing you tons of light and love. There’ll be a quiz at Christmas, too! 🙂
I love you so much.
Happy Birthday! xxxx
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